Friday, June 20, 2008

when will they understand???

People(parents) around you put you under the burden of hell lot of responsibilities.
You have to be mature and if you are not then at least you have to flaunt as if you are. Once you become a 'big child' you are not allowed to do silly things, play pranks not allowed to do masti full of madness.You have to be serious genuinely. They want you to judge life and come up with correct decisions. But what are the parameters of correctness can anyone tell me? Whatever they think is correct for them but maybe we don't agree to that and as a result they start imposing there decisions on us,because
"boss kaun hai maloom hai kya..."
You have to prove your sensibility at each and every stage of growth. But everyone has its own capacity to work and think, when will they understand, that each and everyone in this world is born with some potentials and not with perfection.

Hence i request all the bosses to please cooperate and respect our decisions.

13 comments:

pratul said...

it's not about taking all decisions by our own & now a days situation is that parents are allowing there children to manage their life by own they r just suggesting bodies
so just chill...................

joiedevivre said...

i m chilled bhai...but d thing is..sare parents ek jaise nai hote..ek jaise nai sochte..
and on top of it...momy papa are mpmy papa...u hav no other option...u hav to b wid dem...deal wid dem..;)

pratul said...

if you r having a feeling that u have to leav with your parents or to be with them than it's you who is looser ...................
children should have a feeling that "i always want to be with my parents"
till you have not achieved somthing atleast untill than you should bliandly trust than becasuse untill that time parents will always do for your future and your benefit

joiedevivre said...

first of all its not at all about winning or losing...we are not here to win prizes over battles wid our parents...
it about situation & understanding..
and no parents in dis world can ever think to harm dere own shadows..

about blind trust..i dont think word blind is needed..parents are the most trustful people in our life...and i hope u wont mind if we call dem our GOD

and answre me ..wat after u hav achieved sumthing...
u wont trust dem???
or
u wont b wid dem???
or
dis blind faith goes in air after ur achievement?

Viajero said...

Whenever my parents say I have grown up and behave like the grown ups I say, I am still a child and will always remain so ;)

Bhai with Chai said...

That made me smile.. as in..I could relate to it coz I've said pretty much the same things in my head / to my friends whenever I'm too aaaarrrggghh! It's momentary for me..

joiedevivre said...

@ bhai with chai
i liked arrrgghhh
perfect thing..

महेन said...

I am soon to be a "boss" :-) and I assure u I m in no mood to be a boss... Parents don't imposs their decision rather they imposs their experience which might hv been right for them but could be wrong for anybody else. Osho said, "You should try to escape from experienced ppl. They don't let u explore ur horizons.

joiedevivre said...

@ mahen
may b u r absolutely rite..
but wat i hav written is a chils perspective...and not d boss
i respect ur wrds..

joiedevivre said...

*childs

joiedevivre said...

@ mahen
thanx for supprotin d point

Deepali said...

The most common line I get is - We have seen more of the world than you have. We haven't greyed our hair for nothing.

It's crazy. What works for you doesn't work for everyone. One size never fits all.

Of course I have started to discount what my parents say mainly because they don't want me to make mistakes and I try to respect that. It's very pissing off but well for them it's a habit now so I listen and then just say no if I don't agree.

joiedevivre said...

@ deepali
its an open ended discussion...